Relapse triggers can affect any individual in recovery that encounters people,
situations, or settings they associate with past drug abuse. Often times, they
experience strong urges to use drugs or alcohol and slip back into addictive
use. Such cue-induced relapse, can occur long after the individual has stopped
using drugs or alcohol. Certain triggers set off our desire for food, substances,
and behaviors. All advertising is designed to trigger our impulses. Situations,
people, and times of day can all be triggers. They can be overwhelming or subtle.
When drug abusers stop using, they make important progress toward recovering
from their addiction. But the danger of relapse (beginning to use alcohol or
drugs again), threatens the chances of full recovery. Identifying what triggers
relapse, can prevent it.
Below are known relapse triggers:
- Exhaustion: Allowing yourself to become overly tired. Not following through
on self-care behaviors of adequate rest, good nutrition, and regular exercise.
Good physical health is a component of emotional health. How you feel will
be reflected in your thinking and judgment.
- Dishonesty: It begins with a pattern of small and unnecessary lies with
those you interact with in family, social, and work settings. This is soon
followed by lying to yourself or rationalizing and making excuses to avoid
working your program.
- Impatience: Things are not happening fast enough for you. Others are not
doing what you want them to do, or what you think they should do.
- Depression: Overwhelming and unaccountable despair may occur in cycle. If
it does, talk about it and deal with it. You are responsible for taking care
- Frustration: With people and because things may not be going your way. Remind
yourself intermittently, that things are not always going to be the way that
you want them.
- Self-Pity: Feeling like a victim, refusing to acknowledge that you have
choices, and that you are responsible for your own life and the quality of
- Cockiness: "Got it Made," compulsive behavior is no longer a problem.
Start putting self in situations where there are temptations to prove to others
that you don't have a problem.
- Complacency: Not working your program with the commitment that you started
with. Having a little fear is a good thing. More relapses occur when things
are going well than when not.
- Expecting Too Much From Others: "I've changed, why hasn't everyone
else changed too?" You can only control yourself. It would be great if
other people changed their self-destructive behaviors, but that is their problem.
You have your own problems to monitor and deal with. You cannot expect others
to change their lifestyle just because you have.
- The Use of Mood-Altering Chemicals: You may feel the need or desire to get
away from things by drinking, popping a few pills, etc., and your physician
may participate in the thinking that you will be responsible and not abuse
the medication. This is the most subtle way to enter relapse. Take responsibility
for your life and the choices that you make.
The 10 most common relapse triggers:
- Being in the presence of drugs or alcohol, drug or alcohol users, or places
where you used or bought chemicals.
- Feelings we perceive as negative. Particularly anger, sadness, loneliness,
guilt, fear, and anxiety.
- Positive feelings that make you want to celebrate.
- Getting high on any drug.
- Physical pain.
- Listening to war stories and just dwelling on getting high.
- Suddenly having a lot of cash.
- Using prescription drugs that can get you high even if you use them properly.
- Believing that you no longer have to worry (complacent). That is, that
you are no longer stimulated to crave drugs/alcohol by any of the above situations,
or by anything else. Therefore believeing its safe for you to use occasionally.